Do you know in life, I have seen people who I ask for something that ranges from favor to things. Sometimes, they offer me without me asking for, but here is the thing. Keep reading!
In short, mean what you say and say what you mean. You won’t hurt the person if you are honest with him/her. Doing your best is great, but keep the person updated if you meant in the first place to give him/her the hope. Oh, and don’t forget to really do your best! That’s all I can say, and as a person, you think about it.
It’s the vacation submission date at my company. I just submitted mine and then chat on the messenger with my manager little bit. She was saying about having time off during Thanksgiving and Christmas to spend her time with the family. As I have figured this out, so I never consider taking those days off.
I am not a big fan of Family Holidays because as you all know I came here alone. There are times that I even try to reject invitations to celebrate the holidays with American family. As far as being single goes, I have always been considerate towards married ones. Especially in my company, I am surrounded by co-workers who already have family. That’s why, since I am single, I can take any day offs as I want to. Whereas them, they have to plan for the family such as their children’s school days, spouse’s vacation dates, time coordination within the family, etc.
I long for family time with my family. By just thinking like that, I can totally understand other married people’s feeling. If there’s something I wish for, why would I go and destroy the things that others wish for? *smile*
Facing the fear is something that I never have the courage to do. In the meantime, I also do not want to ignore it. There are certain things that I really don’t know what to do to face the fear and hope for the best once the decision is made.
I had a good discussion with a friend last Friday. One thing that he said was that, if thing is working for you, why do you want to change it? This has been on mind since that night, and it helps clearing up my mind. It makes me realize that in life, we sometimes try to change things just because that we think “it might work” the other way. The future is unknown, and having “what if” is not really a way to live a life. But with what I am facing now is certainly something that got my mind stuck, and don’t know what to do for sure. However, the friend was right. Why would I want to change something that is working for me? Especially when it comes to the concept of being who I am and what I want to be in life?
You all think about this. Sometimes, it helps to talk to someone if you are stuck while making a hard decision.
